It doesn't often figure in inclusion narratives, but belonging is the first step to true diversity and equity. Dr Susie Wise, founder and former director of the K12 Lab at Stanford d. school, talks about the intersection of belonging and design, and how they can shape new ways of bringing people together or even new ways of being people together
Q. What is the essence of belonging? How does it feel as opposed to othering?
Belonging is a feeling. It is being able to be yourself, share yourself, and be honoured in all the contexts where you want to be a part. It is essential for learning, growth, and full participation.
Belonging feels like a soothing bath, a friendly hello, or respectfully engaging in disagreement. Othering, by contrast, is treating people from another group as essentially different from and generally inferior to the group you belong to. It is being made to feel less than, projected upon, or reduced to a stereotype. For example, showing up to an event and being asked to show credentials when no one else is or being invited to a meeting without having expectations shared in advance. Othering can also be explicit forms of racial or gender discrimination. The environmental cues of othering—such as who is featured, who is promoted, and who can literally access a space—can belittle some, putting one identity or group above another, or disempower others.
Both belonging and othering show up everywhere around us. But what belonging means to one person is likely to be different from what it means to another. This also changes depending on the context. The same is true of othering—the way it feels can vary a lot.